Move out of the endless cycle of blame/anger/disappointment into a relationship that feels supportive, loving and passionate again. Develop awareness,renew trust, learn new skills to enhance intimacy and have fun! Using ideas from Non-Violent Communication, attachment theory and human psychology we explore together tools to create connection and work through the challenging issues that sometimes take over our relationship. Together meet with me face-to-face through a secure video service, right from the comfort of your own home.
It can be challenging enough to find time to meet with all the other demands in life. Often our relationship can end up last on the list and it is almost impossible to find the time. Let the service come to you. You can meet when it works for you both without having to rush across town to yet another appointment. This online service makes it simpler and easier and it is just as effective.
- Develop awareness
- Renew trust
- Learn new skills to enhance intimacy
- Have fun!
Our most intimate relationship is often the one that holds the most intensity, the most potential for pain, yet also the most potential for connection and joy. Somehow we tend to attract a partner who knows exactly how to trigger the most painful parts in us. That is when well-intentioned communication skills disappear rapidly! We get angry at ourselves and our partner for not using the right words or tone. The whole thing can unraveled so quickly. This is because our mate, aside from our children, is usually the one person who triggers us in precisely the most painful place. This is often a synchronistic dance. At the exact same moment we are in pain we are most likely triggering their most painful place too. We both end up drowning and wanting the other to give us a hand. Despite how it may look on the surface, usually, when there is intense negative feelings it is because we are both are caught in the territory of greatest pain, greatest vulnerability and fear. Hence our places of conflict actually are an invitation to heal and change old ways of being in the world. All the old stuff around needs and whether we are allowed needs and how to take care of our needs gets all tangled up in a relationship. Once we get some awareness of all this, we can learn to seek what we need in our relationship in an empowered and mutually satisfying way!
I work with many different couples; married, common-law, newly together, same sex, transgendered. Our relationships may look different on the surface yet we all get caught in very similar conflicts....and we all need very similar things from our closest connections.
Couples Session: 60 min. session: $150
* in some circumstances prices have be negotiated. Please click below to pay for these sessions.
Psychological Services are covered by most Extended health Care Plans for your coverage requirements and amounts. Please check your insurance provider for your specific coverage amounts.